Bored of each other? We give you the top 10 ways to revive the romance in your love life

Need to spice up your love life?

Bored of each other? We give you the top 10 ways to revive the romance in your love life




Date again: You may be together for a while now, but the first step to bring back the magic is to be able to make an effort. Go on a dinner date every week. And talk about the fun things you could do the next weekend. Think about the dates you'd gone on when you first started dating.
Text your feelings: Your romance began thanks to those tiny love messages to each other. Then eventually it dies down. You probably text each other now only to inform that you're in a meeting. Start texting again. Send smileys and little mush notes. It's not cheesy, it's sweet.
Work out together: Snatch that workout session as the time to bond. Walk or jog together. You'd realise that keeping fit is fun when you are together. Plus, a walk out of the four walls of your home, with people on the streets, provides enough matter for interesting conversations.
Surprise, surprise: No, surprises are not restricted to birthdays and anniversaries. Plan a short getaway, cook a meal or simply use your creativity to make something your partner likes. A surprise always, always lights up somebody's day.
Compliment: When was the last time you noticed what he/she was wearing and complimented him/her? Everyone likes to be appreciated and admired. Say 'you look beautiful', 'thank you' more often.
Show you care: Remember your courtship period? How many times would you call him/her just to say that you love him/her? Make the effort again, those three words are magical.
Be fun: You will laugh with each other only when you do fun things with each other. If you love some good adrenaline rush, go kayaking, bungee jumping, trekking. Or just a close dance will do. You never know, the rest of the evening might be full of surprises!
Talk openly: It's a monotonous routine. You come home and switch on the TV. The hour before you snooze off is actually the time to chat with your partner. Talk about anything under the sun, about your childhood, the time you first met… You'll not know how you lose track of time once you start talking.
Party hard: Visit friends, go partying with them once in a while. It's a reminder of all the great times you had together. A few drinks down, a little canoodling will help you loosen up. Enjoy each other's company.
Get intimate: Physical love is important to have an emotional connect. Sex is hardly boring. Stop thinking of it as routine. And please don't turn your back to each other afterwards; cuddle up for a while.