How to deal with impossible people?

How to deal with impossible people

Annoyed with that pesky incompatible person? We list top 10 ways to help save the headache

• Accept the reality: Try to accept the fact that you are not compatible with them. So fooling yourself, thinking he/she will change his/her attitude towards you is a wrong idea to harbour. • Have a chat: Talk to them and try to find out where the problem lies. Even if you know that you can't be friends ever, you can still shake hands and be cordial. • Don't blame yourself: You're probably being told every day that every conceivable thing is your fault. It isn't. Chances are, the more often they blame you, the more they themselves are actually at fault. • Temper check: Don't lose it and blabber angry words directed at the person. You'll be underestimating their temper that way. Remember such people love to make a scene and make you out to be the bad person. Stay calm. • Hold yourself well: Do not cry, at whatever cost. This will only instigate them to draw more satisfaction from your reactions. Reactions are what they want. Don't give them any. • Ignore: The best way to handle them is to simply ignore them. When you look through them, they get confused. Talk to them only when absolutely necessary. nConfide: If somebody shares the same feelings towards the impossible person, go have a chat with him/her. You might discover his/her character in a whole new light and be able to deal with him/her in a better manner. • Silence is golden: Since such people are hard to reason with, your best resource is to keep quiet. Until it is over, your task in the relationship is to manage the impossible person, so that he or she does less damage to you. • Be the exact opposite: Be a possible person. Live as an example of tolerance, patience, humility, and even some kindness, because these are all the things that the impossible person is not or not very good at. • Be content: If there's one thing you're sure of, know that you will definitely part ways in the end. So don't stress yourself out. You should be happy in fact that you will eventually go your own ways.